Live On Zoom This Wednesday at 3pm PST
WE TEACH COUPLES HOW TO HEAL AFTER LIES, AFFAIRS, AND BROKEN TRUST
WHETHER YOU'RE THE ONE WHO CHEATED... OR THE ONE WHO STAYED.
Make Sure To Watch This Video First
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN FROM THIS LIVE WEBINAR
REPAIRING TRUST:
Learn how to rebuild emotional safety after betrayal... without shutting down or walking on eggshells.
Discover a better way to communicate that doesn’t start with defense or end in disconnection.
REDEFINING EMPATHY:
Understand what your partner really needs from you... whether you're the one who caused the pain or the one struggling to carry it.
This webinar reveals how shame blocks connection, and what to do instead.
REAL REPAIR, STEP BY STEP:
Healing after betrayal feels overwhelming... but it doesn’t have to be aimless.
We’ll share the 4-stage framework we've used to help countless couples move forward with structure, clarity, and most importantly... hope.
REPAIRING TRUST:
Learn how to rebuild emotional safety after betrayal... without shutting down or walking on eggshells.
Discover a better way to communicate that doesn’t start with defense or end in disconnection.
REDEFINING EMPATHY:
Understand what your partner really needs from you... whether you're the one who caused the pain or the one struggling to carry it.
This webinar reveals how shame blocks connection, and what to do instead.
REAL REPAIR, STEP BY STEP:
Healing after betrayal feels overwhelming... but it doesn’t have to be aimless.
We’ll share the proven 3-part framework we've used to help countless couples move forward with structure, clarity, and most importantly... hope.
IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP STILL SUFFERING FROM A WOUND THAT NEVER REALLY HEALED?
You’ve tried to move on.
Tried to rebuild.
Tried to forget the betrayal… or forgive it.
But deep down, the distance is still there.
...the tension.
...the walking on eggshells.
...the weight of what’s never been said — or never been heard.
And whether you’re the one who broke the trust,
or the one trying to hold everything together…
You’re tired.
Tired of the circular arguments.
Tired of wondering if it’s ever going to feel safe again.
Tired of wanting more… but not knowing how to get there.
That’s why we created this free workshop.
Not to give you generic advice.
Not to blame or shame anyone.
But to walk you through exactly what it takes to begin rebuilding a relationship after betrayal — the real way.
You’ll learn why most couples stay stuck…
How shame quietly sabotages connection…
And what a real path forward actually looks like — together.
Because healing is possible.
But only if you know where to begin.
Two People With
One Path Forward — Together.
FOR THE ONE WHO WAS HURT...
You’re trying to move forward… but you keep getting shut out.
You want honesty... but get silence.
You want reassurance... but get shutdowns or justifications.
You’re carrying the weight of the relationship… and it’s exhausting.
You’re wondering: “Am I asking for too much?”
Or maybe worse: “Are they ever really going to get it?”
FOR THE ONE WHO BROKE THE TRUST...
You’ve apologized. You want to fix it. But nothing’s working...
You feel guilty — and stuck.
You say the "right" things, but it never seems like enough.
When emotions rise, you freeze… or fight… or shut down.
You want to show up — but shame pulls you out.
You’re asking yourself: “Why can’t I do this better?”
FOR THE ONE WHO WAS HURT...
You’re trying to move forward… but you keep getting shut out.
You want honesty... but get silence.
You want reassurance... but get shutdowns or justifications.
You’re carrying the weight of the relationship… and it’s exhausting.
You’re wondering: “Am I asking for too much?”
Or maybe worse: “Are they ever really going to get it?”
FOR THE ONE WHO BROKE THE TRUST...
You’ve apologized. You want to fix it. But nothing’s working...
You feel guilty — and stuck.
You say the right things, but it never seems like enough.
When emotions rise, you freeze… or fight… or shut down.
You want to show up — but shame pulls you out.
You’re asking yourself: “Why can’t I do this better?”
💡THE TRUTH💡
Rebuilding trust takes more than trying harder.
To truly move forward, you have to understand what the other is feeling, and how to navigate through your hurt - together.
MEET YOUR HOST
DUANE OSTERLIND
Licensed Therapist | Host of The Addicted Mind Podcast | Certified Sex Addiction Therapist
For over 15 years, Duane has helped individuals and couples navigate the painful aftermath of betrayal — and build something stronger on the other side.
He doesn’t sugarcoat the work.
And he doesn’t believe shame should lead the process.
Instead, Duane teaches men how to face the damage honestly, lead with integrity, and rebuild trust — without defensiveness, shutdowns, or toxic cycles.
Expert in post-betrayal relationship repair
Host of The Addicted Mind podcast (1M+ downloads)
Known for helping men lead with courage — not just apologies
This webinar is your chance to learn directly from him — and get a new perspective on what healing actually looks like when both people are hurting.
MEET YOUR CO-HOST
ERIC OSTERLIND
Board-Certified Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner
Eric brings a rare blend of clinical expertise, personal insight, and calm, grounded presence to the healing process.
For years, he’s helped men navigate anxiety, depression, and emotional avoidance — especially when relationships are strained after betrayal.
He knows how hard it is to stay present in the pain.
And he knows how to help men show up in a way that actually helps their partner feel safe again.
Expert in helping men shift from shutdown to connection
Known for his gentle, practical approach to emotional growth
Committed to helping couples rebuild without blame or avoidance
If you’ve been stuck in your own head — or struggling to stay in hard conversations without shutting down — Eric is the guide you want by your side.
HEAR FROM OUR HAPPY STUDENTS!
"Empathy can’t live if shame is present. Shame is only thinking of how I feel — not how my partner feels. Those two sentences really changed the way I show up."
- E.O.
"Being able to see my wife’s perspective — even while I still had recovery work to do — was eye-opening. It changed how we talk to each other.”
- B.C.
"I was drowning in an ocean of shame after betraying my partner. This workshop helped me shift from shame to ownership, and start doing the real work."
- M.B.
"This course helped me understand how shame spirals affect my body and my reactions. I can finally sit in hard conversations without shutting down.”
- P.R.
"Now I have the tools to move forward and leave behind the shame I’ve felt for 40+ years. I still have work to do, but I’m not stuck anymore.”
- J.L.
"Over the course of this workshop, I’ve learned to move out of shame and into healthy response. The group has helped me stay grounded and not give up.”
- D.U.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What if I can’t attend live?
Live attendance will get you some additional bonuses and perks, but the replay has you covered.
While attending live allows you to engage and ask questions and have access to bonuses first, the replay ensures you still gain all the insights and actionable steps on your schedule.
What is this event about?
This is a live, expert-led webinar about how couples can begin to rebuild trust and repair connection after betrayal.
Whether you’ve been hurt or you caused the hurt — you’ll learn what it actually takes to move forward together.
Who is this workshop for?
This event is for couples who are struggling in the aftermath of betrayal, infidelity, or emotional disconnect.
It’s especially powerful if:
...you’ve tried talking, but it still feels stuck
...one of you wants to move on, the other can’t
...you’re ready to repair, but don’t know how
You can attend solo or together — all are welcome.
Is this therapy or a support group?
No. This is a free training led by licensed professionals — not therapy.
You won’t be asked to share anything personal.
You’ll just learn what works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to healing from betrayal in a relationship.
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