It’s a 60-minute guided workshop led by Duane and Eric Osterlind that helps you understand how shame quietly blocks connection after betrayal — whether you’re the one who was hurt or the one who caused the pain.

You’ll also get a printable workbook to map out your own “shame compass” and start rebuilding safety from the inside out.

Because healing doesn’t start with communication — it starts with understanding.

The workshop gives you the emotional framework both partners need so the live session can actually work.

Without it, you’re just talking around the real issue.

No. It’s for both partners.

The workshop helps each of you recognize how shame shows up differently — guilt and avoidance for one, fear and hyper-vigilance for the other — and how those reactions keep the relationship stuck.

You can still take the workshop on your own.

Many women find that once they shift how they respond, their partner naturally follows.

Healing one side of the dynamic often changes both.

Therapy helps you process the story.

The Shame Compass Workshop helps you understand the emotional pattern that keeps repeating — the defensiveness, the distance, the constant mistrust.

It’s a missing piece most couples never address directly.

Absolutely not.

This isn’t about assigning blame — it’s about understanding why both partners are reacting the way they are, and how to move toward safety and connection instead of getting stuck in guilt or resentment.

No.

It’s a private, self-paced workshop.

You won’t be asked to share your story or join a group.

It’s educational, practical, and focused on giving you tools you can use immediately.

Either.

Some couples watch it together and pause for reflection.

Others prefer to take it separately first.

Both options work — the key is that each person comes to the live webinar with insight instead of defense.

About an hour.

You can complete it in one sitting, or watch in sections.

You’ll have lifetime access to rewatch it anytime.

Once you finish, you’ll unlock an exclusive invitation to our private live webinar where we go deeper into the 4-stage trust-repair process — showing you how to rebuild, step by step, using what you learned from your Shame Compass.

You’ll still receive the full replay after completing the workshop.

The tools and framework are just as powerful on your own time.

Yes. No one sees your responses or participation — it’s completely private and secure.

Yes.

The Shame Compass helps you heal personally, not just relationally.

Even if you’re no longer together, this process helps you find clarity, closure, and peace so you can stop carrying the same patterns forward.

That’s exactly what this helps with. You’ll learn how shame creates a wall that keeps partners from showing change in a way that feels safe.

Once you both understand that pattern, the change becomes visible and real.

No.

You can take it solo to understand your experience and how to heal — whether you’re still with your partner, separated, or unsure of the next step.

Yes.

If you watch the full workshop and don’t feel it helped you understand your healing process or gave you clarity, just email us within 7 days for a full refund — no questions asked.